Colleen, 65
Fearless, creative, compassionate
“ As an indigenous woman (Métis), aging and the wisdom earned over decades is honoured rather than discarded. Wise, female elders act as guides for those that follow and share the lessons of the past. And much like in Japanese culture, there is no word in our culture that corresponds with ‘retirement’.”
✨ Twinsight: We love how ageism has not stopped Colleen. Ageism is a pervasive social problem and Colleen's perspective on its absurdity will resonate with many. The harmful belief that individuals have a "best before" date based on their age needs to be eradicated from our society. It's important to recognize and appreciate the contributions that individuals can make at any stage of life, and to challenge the stereotypes that limit their potential. Age should not be a barrier to pursuing one's passions or achieving success, and we need to work towards creating a world where people are valued for their abilities and accomplishments, regardless of their age. Thank you for your story Colleen!
I would be delighted to share my story personally and professionally. As a soon to be 65 year old indigenous woman, mother of 5 and grandmother of 7, starting this new venture has been exciting for me. I’ve started, built and sold more than one small business, but this one is without question the most important. I want to inspire others to continue to contribute long after others believe we have passed our “best before” date.
How old are you and how are you feeling about that?
A: I am about to turn 65 and I find myself excited as well as perfectly equipped to reinvent and then reintroduce myself to work that I know could be the most meaningful of my life.
I once thought that my “prime” was my 40’s. I was wrong. Prime is when you want it to be. For me, my prime is now! And the time is now to use my extensive skill set, experience and wisdom to create something remarkable; something that will leave a lasting legacy. There is great freedom in realizing that my prime is now and I love that.
Three words that describe you.
A: Fearless, creative, compassionate
What’s the one life lesson that you wish you had figured out earlier?
A: Accepting myself and being comfortable in my own skin rather than obsessing over my appearance which turns out was a complete waste of time (and money) for far too many years.
Proudest accomplishment?
A: My five children and seven grandchildren
What’s the worst part about aging and what’s the best?
A: The worst part about aging is realizing that I might run out of time to accomplish all the things that are important to me. While I don’t have a “bucket list” per say, I do have ambitions that are yet to be realized. And time just seems to be racing by.
The best part about aging is knowing that I am still a work in progress with the capacity to continue to learn and do great things. I am unquestionably better equipped now than I ever have to do something significant; something special.
Colleen is a serial entrepreneur, yet her latest venture resonates the loudest for her and provides a true sense of purpose.
Have you experienced ageism?
A: Yes! For all the reasons that make absolutely no sense. I have been told I was overqualified when in fact I was perfectly qualified. I have been deemed too expensive, not teachable, less productive, not technically savvy, unable to change… the list almost seems endless and each excuse in the name of ageism is as absurd as the next.
In the eyes of hiring managers, I’ve apparently reached my “best before date” when it comes to employment. And it is from the personal frustration I’ve felt in experiencing ageism that “The Experience Group” was born!
What’s your message to the world?
A: Success is being the best IN the world. Significance is being the best FOR the world.” UNRETIRE!! The world still needs you!
Favorite band, book or artist?
A: My favourite musical artist is Robert Plant. Now while he might not be everyone's “cup of tea”, this Rock and Roll Hall of Fame English singer and songwriter is best known as the lead singer and lyricist of the rock band Led Zeppelin from 1968 until 1980. He is regarded by many as one of the greatest singers in rock music. But what I particularly admire is that he has reinvented himself more than once.
What sparks your joy these days?
A: Helping others reignite their curiosity and consider becoming ageless explorers. Gratitude for all I have been given fuels my joy and outlook.
What’s next for you? What does your future self look like?
A: Once my new firm is established, I will finish writing the 3 books that I have started. I am determined to be an author! This is something that I will not be denied.
Are there traditions in your culture related to aging that you would like to share?
A: As an indigenous woman (Métis), aging and the wisdom earned over decades is honoured rather than discarded. Wise, female elders act as guides for those that follow and share the lessons of the past. And much like in Japanese culture, there is no word in our culture that corresponds with ‘retirement’.
Do you feel visible?
A: Fortunately, I still feel visible – my work with both of my firms has allowed me to remain relevant and influential. But I think my experience is uncommon. I have heard from many who describe themselves as ‘invisible’ after reaching the age of retirement.
Are there things you are doing now that you couldn’t do before?
A: While I’ve always figured out my own path and trusted my instincts, I have more courage and belief in myself than I ever have. This comes, I think, from the realization that age and ability have little to do with each other.
I know now that anything is possible and there is little that I am afraid to try regardless of the outcome. I know now that failure is not fatal as long as I “fail forward”.
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