Marci, 60
Honest, disciplined, empathetic
“ The saying "comparison is the thief of joy" is so relevant - and we need to learn it early and often, so as we grow we're not interested in measuring ourselves against others.”
✨ Twinsight: We love Marci’s life lesson. When we compare ourselves to others, we are often focusing on what we lack rather than what we have. We start to believe that we are not good enough or that we will never measure up to those around us. This kind of thinking can be damaging to our mental health and well-being. But the truth is that we all have something to offer, and we should focus on our own unique qualities and strengths rather than comparing ourselves to others. By doing so, we can find joy in our own lives and appreciate the blessings that we have. Life is not a competition, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to success. Everyone has their own path to follow, and it's up to us to discover and pursue our own passions and goals.
I’ve always wanted to archive and curate photos, so I’m lucky I’ve been doing that for a couple of decades. After 18 years spent at renowned organizations like the Bettmann Archive (acquired by Corbis, the creative photo agency founded by Bill Gates, now owned by Getty), I had the privilege of working with a collection of 18 million+ images of vast cultural and historical significance. I also got to participate in the rise of photo digitization, making this rich visual legacy available for the world to see, share and enjoy.
But like many, I felt called to strike out on my own (helped along by the rampant sexism and ageism in corporate America!) I started my photo management business when I was 55, and haven't looked back. I come from a long line of entrepreneurial salespeople so my trajectory makes sense (in hindsight - I didn't plan to do this). But I love being my own boss and working as much or as little as I please.
How old are you and how are you feeling about that?
A: I'm 60 and to be honest, I can't believe it. I feel more like a permanent 45 - though my knees might disagree! But I'm grateful to be here - so many others haven't made it this far.
Three words that describe you.
A: Honest, disciplined, empathetic
What’s the one life lesson that you wish you had figured out earlier?
A: The saying "comparison is the thief of joy" is so relevant - and we need to learn it early and often, so as we grow we're not interested in measuring ourselves against others.
Proudest accomplishment?
A: Being with my husband - who is also my business partner and best friend - for 40 amazing years. I'm so lucky, and so grateful.
Have you experienced ageism?
A: Yes - many times over since turning 40. I think this is why so many older women decide to dye their hair fun colors, get their first (or 10th) tattoo, radically change their wardrobes, etc. It's not a matter of trying to look or pretend to be younger but rather a way of self-expression and a devil-may-care attitude. After all, we're often considered invisible in our society, so why not?
What’s your message to the world?
A: Live below your means. Prioritize your health and well-being. Eat your veggies. And respect your elders!
Favorite band, book or artist?
A: My favorite (non-fiction) book is Oliver Burkeman's "The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking". It's simply brilliant.
What sparks your joy these days?
A: Managing, organizing and preserving family archives for my clients gives me a deep sense of meaning and accomplishment. It's truly an honor and a privilege to do this work.
What is one important piece of advice that you would give someone embarking on building a small business? Talk about what it takes to become a solopreneur.
A: The saying "everyone has the same 24 hours in a day" is utter nonsense - and too many business "gurus" repeat this constantly. Women founders are especially vulnerable to feeling like we're failing if we don't get everything accomplished on our to-do lists every single day. Many of us have other demands on our time - aging parents, adult or young children, running a household, other jobs, outside activities, chores, friendships to maintain, physical and mental challenges and so on. So no, we don't have the same 24 hours as everyone else (and this "advice" almost always comes from men!)
A big part of being a solopreneur means knowing your limits - energetically, emotionally and physically...and what you can and cannot accomplish on your own each day. And to be kind to yourself, especially during times of stress. I've found things often take longer than I think, and it's important to have a support system in place. This can be a trusted friend, partner or colleague (or several). It also means knowing when to ask for help, because help is something every solopreneur needs!
Are there things you are doing now that you couldn’t do before?
A: Yes - running a successful solopreneur business is a big one!
Learn more about Marci at Pastpresentpix.com